Hypnotize Someone Without Them Knowing While Talking To Them
Some people seem to be able to persuade others to do almost anything, just by speaking with them. We all know those smooth talkers who seems able to sell snow to Eskimos.
Why are some people able to do this and other aren’t?
One effective way of persuading others while talking to them is by using conversational hypnosis
Let me tell you what conversational hypnosis is.
Putting people in deep trances like a psycho-hypnotist would do in this office is not what conversational hypnosis is about.
What it is about is using language that by-passes someone’s conscious brain and makes suggestions directly to the subconscious mind. Using the words of the conversation to directly communicate with the subconscious mind of the listener is conversational hypnosis.
One of the best at doing this is a guy called Robert Dilts. He calls this kind of language sleight of mouth. He says that language is really a map of our world, and that no two people live in the same world. (Deep, huh?)
He means that every person views the world in a unique way, and language is used to describe their world and even further to actually create their world.
So basically, what Dilts is saying is that when you talk about something in a certain way, you actually begin to think about that thing in that way. For example, if you are always saying things like, I hate school then you will hate school. You are actually making yourself hate school by saying you hate school.
So what does this have to do with conversational hypnosis?
Here’s the connection, in the same way you directed your mind to hate school, you can direct the minds of others to hate school as well by simply talking to them about how you hate school.
Now you know why attitudes indeed are contagious. Because the attitudes expressed in words direct the minds of the listeners to think the same way.
Remember how your parents used to freak out if they thought you had the wrong friends? Well, there maybe something to that. If you hang around friends who think a certain way, the words they use will carry those attitudes like a virus into your subconscious and literally start infecting you to think the same way. For good or for bad.
You see how powerful your words are? One reason they are so strong is the subconscious brain absorbs them like a sponge.
The subconscious mind is always aware of what’s going on around you. In fact, that’s were most of a person’s thinking goes on. But the subconscious is easily influenced by what people around you are saying.
Someone’s world can literally be changed by hearing the correct words. And what are these words? For that you’ll need to read the next part of this article, or visit by blog to find out.
